Friday, August 28, 2009
It's on.....
Thanks :-)
Thursday, May 28, 2009
Writer's Workshop time

Wednesday, May 27, 2009
It's all good....
Good news on B's wrist. It's not broken. Not even sure if it's sprained, but he's in a removable splint. Both of us were relieved about that. He was worried it would impede him for band, but I told him even if he was put in a cast it was only for a few weeks.
I was having an odd morning. By that I mean I felt odd. Not sick, just weird. I was at the high school this morning to drop off some parkas and on the way to work I decided to do a little talking to God. Basically I just prayed for peace for myself and others around me. There is a slight bit of upheaval in a family around here that may impact mine, so I feel we all need some peace. I also happened to go online and one of the first things that was shown to me was this.... "Peace be unto you." -Luke 24:36 This was about a half hour after the prayer, so I guess someone was listening.
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
I want candy....
It's been a long weekend. Had the boys for one extra day because of the holiday. No complaints here. :-)
Saturday: J spent most of the day with one of his friends. B, Bill and I braved the crowds at IKEA and Old Navy. My absolutely favorite chair was on sale at IKEA for $39 instead of the usual $89. So I made Bill take me. This one has a leather cushion that I didn't buy, but the colors are the same.
By the time we got to where these were, they were almost out.
Old Navy was running a one day sale on flip flops for $1. I barely got some for the boys. Just the old rubber type, but hey....$1. Bill always says I'll make us go broke saving money...lol.
When we got home, B spent the night at a friends. J came home and then Bill and I helped to get our church back to normal after a scrap booking event. During the time that B was at his friends, he injured himself. Tonight we'll find out if his wrist is broken or not. I have already taken him to the ER and they couldn't tell. Tonight we'll go to the ortho to decide.
Yesterday was the local Memorial Day parade. I walked along side the band giving them water. B just marched. Couldn't do much with his arm in a splint and sling. (Yeah, the irony of him getting drum major and breaking a bone isn't lost on either of us...)
I hope all of you had a wonderful weekend and a great week.
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
Photo Blurb

This week's I Heart Faces contest is for their Photo Blurb Book. Instead of Adult and Kid categories, there are Amateur and Professional. I am a consummate amateur so here goes.
Monday, May 18, 2009
It's Monday...
From over at Kasey's...Friend Makin Monday.
You wouldn't be caught dead where?: In Tower of Terror at Disney
Do you have any hidden talents?: I can write backwards
Name two things you consider yourself to be very good at: cooking, baking
Name two things you consider yourself to be very bad at: being assertive, writing
Have you ever won a trophy?: I think so, just don't remember in what
Name one thing not many people know about you: Hmmm.... I would love to help with or start a support group for domestic violence survivors
Name your earliest memory: Being in a playpen when I was around 2.
What was your favorite musical group in jr. high?: Probably Journey
What was something the worst roommate you ever had did?: Considering the only roommates I've had have been my husbands.... Not gonna go there
When you were a kid what did you want to be when you grew up?: Depending on the year...x-ray tech, psychologist, mom
What was your worst dating experience?: My best friend set me up with the dorkiest guy. She said he was cute, I must say I've questioned her taste in men more than once... ;-)
If you were about to die what would your last meal be?: Something with steak, salad and cake
Who is the most important person in you life?: My kids and my husband
If your house was on fire what 3 things would you grab on your way out?: Assuming my family can get out.... laptop (for pictures), painted wooden pig my dad made when he was 6, important papers...
Saturday, May 16, 2009
May I introduce......

As I edited in the last post, he was able to attend the banquet. I wasn't sure if they were going to announce the drum major at this event, the last part of auditions was that morning. I have no idea how many people have input into the decision. But, needless to say, we are thrilled. I almost cried. :-)
Here is the 2 of us, a bit blurry...

Friday, May 15, 2009
Busy weekend...yet again
Tonight is the annual band banquet. We'll be having dinner, an awards ceremony and then some of the kids have their own bands who will play. There will also be dancing and board games.
Tomorrow, our church is having a picnic...if it doesn't rain. I do have to work tomorrow, but no conflict there. At some point, weather permitting, I hope to help Bill do more work outside. Either putting up the borders for the garden or the front border on the house (not sure what to call it, a place to plant stuff...will share pics when finished).
Sunday is a baseball game in York. The band will be playing the National Anthem again. Hopefully the weather will hold.
Monday, May 11, 2009
Good weekend
I have now dubbed his party the 2nd annual BBQ and slasher movie birthday celebration. This year he had 10 kids show up at the appointed time. I think it was 8 girls and 2 boys and himself. I also need to mention that I'm not really fond of this age range (14-15) in a group setting. At one point one of the boys got kicked by a girl (I don't think I need to mention where...) and because he got ticked off (not that I blame him), 3 kids decided to leave. Ok, fine, whatever....the parents were notified, not my problem anymore. Then 2 other kids showed up, so we were almost at original capacity. After that, it was cool. They ate, chased each other, played hide and seek in the dark, watched horror movies and hung out. All in all, a good day for him.
Mother's Day was nice also. The ex never helps with MD stuff (I always ask about Father's Day and his birthday, but leave it up to the kids), but that's cool. M bought me a card that she gave me before we went to church. Our church did a MD breakfast and they always play a female Christian comedienne DVD for us. This one wasn't preachy at all and was hilarious. The breakfast was delicious. After church I took a small nap and then the kids and I went to Wal Mart and Dollar General so J could spend his birthday money. B felt bad that he didn't get me anything for MD, told him he didn't need to, I was happy just being with them. But, he found a baby Shrek and gave it to me...lol. J made me a card and said I could "use" him for 2 days...lol. I still have his "slave for a day" card from my last birthday that I haven't used yet. ;-)
After the boys went to their dad's, M and and I hung out and watched the finale of Celebrity Apprentice.
This week is sort of busy with a band concert, band awards, church picnic and a baseball game. Should be interesting.
I know it's late but....Happy Mother's Day to all the wonderful moms out there.
Friday, May 8, 2009
Say it Forward: Loyal Commenter

Thursday, May 7, 2009
Happy Birthday
Monday, May 4, 2009
OMG....it's Friend Making Toy time...


The first time I met my half brother, Rob, he gave me one of these dolls. I still have her, she was a favorite.
Baby Chrissy:
Another fave doll of mine. You could "pull" her hair and it would grow. I think if you moved her arm it got short again.

Friday, May 1, 2009
A smattering of photos
Helping the kids (2 of them) find eggs. Not quite sure why they are all staring at me...lol.
My boys and my step nephew killing "Nazi zombies".
Thursday, April 30, 2009
That time again

It's Writer's Workshop time again. Visit Mama Kat for the others.
The Prompts:
1.) Who really helped you get over something? Write about that person.(writingfix.com)
2.) Is plastic surgery an option? Without being vulgar, write about the body part still attached to you that you would most like to dis-attach and replace with a better one. (writingfix.com)
3.) Share an interesting email exchange you've had with someone lately.
4.) Have you thought about shutting down your blog? Why haven't you and what would cause you to make that decision final?
5.) Today I will...
This week I think I'll share about #4. I don't have any plan to shut down this blog, but I have others where I came close to it.
Back in 2001 I started my blogging adventure over at Xanga.com. I wrote daily there for probably a year or 2 before anyone in my family found out. I was a SAHM who watched some kids during the day, so I had a bit of time to write. I didn't necessarily hide the fact that I had a blog, I just never told my (ex) husband. I pretty much wrote about the same stuff I do here. SSDD... ;-)
When our marriage continued to started to head south I mentioned things, not a bunch of detail, just thoughts. At some point he found out. Didn't bother me too much. He then hacked into my account, wrote horrible stuff about me and even contacted a few people that I met through Xanga. He would comment on their sites and even email them if I had their addresses. Totally horrifying and embarrassing to me.
Luckily for me, I didn't lose any friends over his asshattedness. I still have that blog, mostly read there now. So, I don't shut them down, I just move on.
Monday, April 27, 2009
It's Monday again....time to make friends
We are to list 4 things we love, and one thing we dislike, for each category.
1. Coffee
2. Woodsmoke
3. Baking
4. Clean Cotton candle scent
Dislike:
1. BO...lol
Touch
Like:
1. Holding hands with my husband
2. Smooth rocks
3. Yarn
4. When my kids were little and they were all warm and snuggly when they woke in the morning.
Dislike:
1. Anything scratchy
Sound
Like:
1. My children's laughter
2. Birds chirping
3. Hearing my kids play their musical instruments
4. Music
Dislike:
1. Yelling of any sort
Taste
Like:
1. Coffee *smile*
2. Sweets
3. Sour
4. ?
Dislike:
1. Tapioca
Sight
Like:
1. My kids
2. My husband
3. Sunset
4. Light
Dislike:
1. Seeing anyone being hurt
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Quoting
Monday, April 20, 2009
Friend Makin'

Saturday, April 18, 2009
Friday, April 17, 2009
Thoughts
I found this quote this morning in my email....thought it fit...
Thursday, April 16, 2009
Addition.....
I'm just sitting here, alone, watching NCIS and surfing the web. Also enjoying a cup of coffee and some sunflower seeds. M is at work and Bill should be home from work soon. (Yeah, it's 10pm..)
Hope all of you have a pleasant evening and a good night's sleep. :-)
In the Top 3
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Passive aggressive tribute
Monday, April 13, 2009
Howdy
This weekend was spent hanging out watching movies, doing a bit of shopping and being with family. Saturday the boys went with Bill and I to Target. I had a gift card and needed a muffin pan for cupcakes I was making for Sunday. (I have every other baking pan known to man almost, but no muffin pan...) While looking at the Easter stuff my boys decided to bash each other in the head with easter baskets. Yeah...I'm so proud... The funny part was when another mom looked at me and said...."Oh no...don't tell me that they don't grow out of that!!!" Nope, sorry...lol. Her boys are 12 and 14 and mine are 14 and 16....nope still going on. Then, J decides to be
Sunday was a full one for me. Our usual hospitality lady at church was visiting family yesterday, so I was asked to fill in. Usually this entails just keeping up with coffee before service. But, since yesterday was Easter it also entailed making coffee for the annual breakfast. Our schedule at church yesterday was:
7am: Sun-already up service
8am: Breakfast
10am: Service
I was up at 6am to get to church by 7 to start coffee. Really not a big deal...just made for a long day. We got out of there around noon.
We spent the rest of the afternoon at my brother's house. With my family (5 of us), my mom, brother's fam (4), his BIL's fam (3), BIL's IL's (2), my SIL's parents and gma (3)..it was a full house. After we ate dinner the older kids (4 of them) hid eggs for the 2 younger ones. The older ones were fighting over the eggs for some reason...M, who is 18, was wrestling my brother's step son, who is 12, over eggs... she makes me proud also.... :-) The older ones got money in eggs from my mom. The boys also were killing Nazi Zombies for most of the afternoon...another proud moment for me on Easter.
All in all it was a good weekend.
I do have pics...just not here. :-)
Friday, April 10, 2009
I'm an idiot
Thursday, April 9, 2009
Writers workshop

The Prompts:
1.) Describe a moment when you realized you and your spouse were SO different.
2.) What is your role in the household?
3.) Write about how you felt when you discovered you were lied to.(creativewritingprompts.com)
4.) Describe a hard time you gave a teacher...what would you say to them today?
5.) What is an unpleasant experience you had eating? Write a poem, paragraph, or something else about the experience.(writingfix.com)
I think today I will pick #5.
Chinese buffet
Eating
Oh, look....
Man with clipboard at buffet
Hmm...looks like health inspector...
Ex says to me...
Don't worry.....just eat your rat....
Appetite.....GONE
;-)
Head on over to Mama Kat's for more fun...
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
One more wrestling post...
May 4, 2008
The other excitement was for the boys and me. We went to a wrestling match, NCW, at the vo tech high school in York. Let me give you some background. I am a HUGE wrestling fan. From the 80's until now. The boys get fairly impressed with my knowledge of moves, wrestlers, etc.... lol. They were duly impressed that I actually saw the first Wrestlemania, albeit on PPV, but I saw it nonetheless. So last month I saw a flier for a wrestling match that featured Jim "the Anvil" Neidhart and Doink the Clown. M thought I was nuts when I started screaming....lol. So, since J's birthday is this coming Wed, I thought this would be cool. So the boys and I went. Suffice it to say that I was thrilled. I got a signed picture from Neidhart and I shook his hand...I was very happy. Then I got a signed pic from Doink. The boys went around and got autographs from the other NCW wrestlers and even Elvis Presley (who sang the National Anthem). We got to see a 10 man match and a triple tag team match that included a ton of stuff to hit people with and that also got into the stands. All in all, we had a great time.
Yeah....I'm obsessed..... ;-)
Monday, April 6, 2009
Hi...my name is Cheryl...
Last year for J's birthday I finally got to a wrestling match. (I'll have to see if I can find the post from my other blog) At a local high school they have a local wrestling league. They had 2 WWE guys from the 80's there and I was in heaven. I got to shake hands with Jim "The Anvil" Neidhart. OMG.....I was thrilled. ;-) Doink the Clown was also there. Actually so was one of the guys from the Rock and Roll Express. (I fully realize that the majority of my readers are women who could care less about this..lol) My boys had a great time getting autographs from the wrestlers and laughing at me.
Well....Sgt Slaughter will be in town in 2 weeks....who wants to go with me????
Friend Makin Monday
Kasey, at All That is Good, is hosting Friend Making Monday. The prompt for this week is: 10 things that just really get you fuzzed up (that means makes you mad). And here we go.....
1. Other people's drama: I have enough drama in my own life, I don't need anyone else's, especially the people I work with.
2. Being ignored: Major pet peeve of mine. Not sure why though.
3. My kids' needs being ignored by a certain other party: 'Nuff said.
4. At the moment...some people that I volunteer with in the band... see #1 and #2.
5. Not being able to think of things to write for this... :-)
6. Having to tell my kids a bajillion times to do something. The cat box will not be cleaned by itself....
7. Having to explain things to my kids that they shouldn't even have to even think about. Cryptic yes, sorry.
8. People who don't take responsibility for their actions.
9. Rudeness anytime, but especially in retail settings. Many people don't realize that their attitude makes or breaks business.
10. A dirty kitchen. The rest of my house may be cluttered, but I try really hard to keep the kitchen clean. I guess it's my many years of restaurant service.
Friday, April 3, 2009
Blah...
We've got a busy weekend coming up. At least tonight and tomorrow. Tomorrow is our 9th annual Jazz Fest. Our middle and high school jazz bands are playing in addition to 3 other local high/middle schools. It is a great night of music, coffee and dessert. I am the co-chair for the 3rd year in a row. Tonight is set-up and a concert by the guest clinician, who will go to both of our schools and work with the jazz band students. Bill and I will be working in the kitchen tomorrow night surrounded by cakes...mmm...
Last night Bill and I signed up at a gym. Planet Fitness is about 15 minutes from our house. We have at least 4 gyms near us, but PF is only $10 a month and has tons of cardio equipment, and is open 24 hours. Not that I'll be there at 2am or the like, but at least if I have to go later or earlier in the day, then I can. (Being around all those cakes isn't gonna help me any....)
I got my swap box from Heather yesterday. I will have to post pictures...she spoiled me. :-)
Have a great day and weekend.
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
I Heart Faces: Speaking of puppies..
Monday, March 30, 2009
Yada yada
Friday, March 27, 2009
Quips
When my boys were in elementary school, their teachers were amazed that my kids understood sarcasm and could dish it out as well. Now, as we all know, you can't teach sarcasm. It is good to see that my kids have some of my genes....lol.
Last week I was explaining to B how to use our bread machine. The order to put things in etc... When I got to the yeast part and told him to make a well in the flour to put it in, he questioned why. To be honest, I'm not sure of the technical answer, but I told him that I think you don't want to mix the yeast in too soon. To that he replied...."Yeah, you don't want premature fermentation..." OMG....I almost fell over laughing.
Then J, a couple years ago, around age 11 quipped during a conversation on diets like Atkins and being a vegetarian etc... "I'm a vegan on the Atkins diet...." Ok, my kids are smart mouths.... ;-)
And I couldn't be prouder...
Thursday, March 26, 2009
The Assignment...

The Prompts:
1.) Somebody I'm praying for....
2.) I don't believe in prayer because...
3.) What are you putting off right now?
4.) You can go back to your childhood for one day. What day and age do you choose?
The obvious one that, I'm sure, everyone is writing about for #1 is Stellen. I don't feel that I can adequately put into words my feelings on this, so suffice it to say that I am definately praying for him and his whole family.
I do believe in prayer and I am always putting things off, so #4 should work for me today.
To be perfectly honest, I don't remember my whole childhood, who can. There is one day that is permanently etched in my mind....I would love to go back to the day before that day. I don't remember a thing about that day, though.
November 10, 1977....the day my dad passed away. I was 9 years old and in 4th grade. I do remember kissing him goodbye that morning and then heading off to school. I won't bore you with all the details after school, but I remember seeing my mom cry for the first time in my presence and having priests and friends coming in and out that day. So November 9th would be the day that I would like to have again.
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Wordless Wednesday

Monday, March 23, 2009
I Heart Faces: No Flash
Friday, March 20, 2009
Once again.......
Must have something to do with the lovely cough and sexy cig voice I've still got goin' on. That tends to distract your mind when you are coughing your lungs out while trying to have a coherent thought.
One good thing is that I'll be finally getting together with the girls tomorrow night. Doesn't matter that we all live within 10 minutes of each other, we don't see each other too much. Email helps alot. :-) We're having dinner somewhere and then we'll do something. You see, the three of us have known each other close to 30 years and we still can't make a decision ahead of time to save our lives. But that's ok. Margaritas and laughter make it all better.
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Getting your twitch on.....
This is J..... This is J on Monster Lo Carb energy drink: |

Oh my Lord..... Ever had one of these?
Now, J can be slightly hyper on a normal day. He wanted to try it and I actually had some of it. Tasted horrible....like someone liquified a lollipop....blech... After 5 minutes the boy was twitching... scared me to death. Never. Ever. Again.
I am feeling much better today.......although now, when I talk I have that sexy gravelly tone like I've smoked 3 packs of cigarettes a day for years. And now I have a cough.....someone help me.....
Monday, March 16, 2009
Blah
Friday, March 13, 2009
Wow...
I am having writer's block I think. I cannot think of one thing to say that may be riveting to anyone. I may have to just list stuff that's going on and/or happened just to see how
- I got my hair cut last night (will be entering the Hair Dare shortly)
- Had a killer spinach salad at Della Rose's on Wednesday
- Got my swap partner from Whitney
Wow....very not interesting.....lol
I do have a post ready to go for my cooking blog. I don't update that one as often as I should, but my menus run pretty much the same all the time. But, B and I are planning a gourmet meal one of these days and I will document that for the blog too.
Anyway... I hope all of you have a great Friday the 13th and a great weekend.
Monday, March 9, 2009
The weekend
Friday night B went with our youth group to Christian Youth night at the Baltimore Blast soccer game. They do this annually with a Christian band playing afterwards. This year Thousand Foot Crutch played. He had a great time. (The guy that owns my place of employment, the bank, also owns the Baltimore Blast and the arena they play in...so B was helping my career....lol)
M was hanging with friends and Bill, J and I just had pizza and hung out at home.
Saturday Bill, the boys and I headed to York to look around a bit. The boys took their electric bass to a guitar shop to see how much they could get for it. Not much, as it seems...lol. Both boys have their eyes on different guitars. I put a drum up on Craigslist to sell for J, and B is trying to save money. (Yeah, that will happen)
Yesterday was church, as usual. I am in the women's Sunday school class which gave me a bit to think about yesterday. I think I'll make that one a separate post after I get my thoughts together. J had nursery duty again. One of the little girls decided she had to sit with me during service, so that was nice. After church, the boys and I did a little grocery shopping, we had dinner and hung out until their dad picked them up.
Tonight I have a booster meeting, and Thursday I have a hair appointment, so I may play along with Hair Dare...

Thursday, March 5, 2009
Mad Skillz
Yeah, my life is soooo exciting...lol. But I did enter a swap over at Whitney's that should be fun. I will be grabbing the button and posting it on the side in a bit. I would like to get in on the giveaway/swap action, but not really sure what to do. I'll have to give it some thought.
Have a great day...the sun is out (hopefully where you are too)....smile
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
Bright and shiny

A Jay and Deb Production.
Monday, March 2, 2009
Let it snow........

Friday, February 27, 2009
Ask and ye shall (unexpectedly) receive...
I must admit I laughed when I opened the package. The reason is the brand of chips. I have looked in every store around to find cinnamon chips. So, the brand of chips is Hershey. I live 45 minutes from Hershey! I just found it funny. YMMV. ;-)
Tonight is open mic night at my church. B and his band were going to play, but they didn't get enough practice time in. But we're going anyway to hear some good music.
Thursday, February 26, 2009
People today....
I'm trying out my contacts today...again. I found them...lol. I'm patiently waiting for my eyes to dry out...lol.
Yesterday, while waiting for J at the bus stop, I found the B&W setting on my camera. I've been looking for over a year...even with the book. I am thrilled beyond belief. ;-)
Wow....I am way to exciting....
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Out with the old....
Today is Ash Wednesday. While I now attend a Nazarene church, my Catholic roots are very strong. While reading over at the Six Pack, I was reminded that I need to read my bible more. Lent is about giving something up, but bettering one's self is good too. June has a list of readings on her site and I may look into putting something similar on mine. Join me if you wish, I'd appreciate the company.
I could give up donuts for Lent, but our newest financial advisor just brought us some Maple Donuts...my weakness (cue Homer Simpson). A diet is sure to be in my future...
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Word verification...
Back later.......
Monday, February 23, 2009
Let's Make Friends
1. Coffee: That's a big DUH...
2. Knitting: I don't do it too often, but I do have a project in the works at the moment.
3. Reading: Another duh... I usually have one on me at all times. I actually read 3 books yesterday..lol
4. The computer: All my friends are in it.....
5. Message boards: I met all my friends there....... (MOL, PS, etc...lol)
6. Blogging: I've been blogging since 2001.
7. Photography: Not great at it, but love pictures and taking them.
8. Church: It gives me a peaceful feeling.
9. My 2 best friends: (other than my dh...) Lisa and Kim are the greatest. Even though we live close we don't get out too often, but when we do...it's a total laughfest.
10. Hmmm.... I guess I'll just add the family in for good measure..
Head on over there to meet some interesting people.
I <3 Faces: Black and White

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